Episode #32: Understanding Attention in Toddlers and Preschoolers: How It Develops and Why It Matters with The Childhood Collective

 
 
 
 
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If you’ve ever wondered why your toddler’s attention span seems so short (or why it feels impossible for them to sit still!), this episode is for you. Katie is joined by Dr. Lori Long and Katie Severson, SLP from The Childhood Collective—a team of child psychologists and a speech-language pathologist who help families of children with ADHD thrive at home and at school.

Together, they break down what healthy attention looks like in early childhood, how it develops naturally, and what parents can do to nurture it through play, routines, and relationships.

They also discuss how today’s fast-paced, tech-filled world is shaping kids’ ability to focus (and how small, intentional changes can make a big difference).

You’ll walk away with practical ideas for supporting your child’s focus, emotional regulation, and resilience. Plus reassurance that attention is a skill that grows over time!

IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVER:

  • Why attention matters in the toddler and preschool years

  • What “typical” attention looks like (and what parents shouldn’t expect just yet)

  • How everyday play and routines naturally build focus

  • The impact of screens on developing attention spans

  • Doable ways to protect your child’s focus without going “zero screen time”

  • How emotions and discomfort affect attention—for kids and parents

  • Strategies to help toddlers and preschoolers handle big feelings

  • When to wonder about ADHD—and what early support can look like

ABOUT OUR GUESTS:

The Childhood Collective is a team of two child psychologists and a speech-language pathologist—who are also moms—on a mission to help families of children with ADHD thrive.

Together, they combine clinical expertise with genuine understanding of what real life with kids looks like. Through their online courses, coaching, and their podcast Shining with ADHD, they share science-backed, compassionate strategies that help parents feel more confident, connected, and supported at home and at school.

We love how they make complex topics feel practical and encouraging—you’ll walk away from this episode with insights that truly make a difference in everyday parenting.

Follow them on Instagram @thechildhoodcollective and learn more at thechildhoodcollective.com.

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